Thank you for letting us serve Orange County in 2008! Raise your glasses high to 2009!
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Hot Dog and Chocolate Dodgeball Tournament
Mark your calendars, gather your teams and start training.
The 1st annual Orange County Wide "Hot Dog and Chocolate Dodgeball Tournament" has been set. We all know ministry is not a competition, but this one is!
The Date: February 21st (Saturday) - Must register by February 20th to get the price break
The Time: Tournament play starts at 9:30am and goes till about 1:30
The Place: The gym and outside courts of Calvary Church of Santa Ana (1010 N. Tustin Ave, Santa Ana)
Who: Everyone who wants to put a team together including: youth pastors with youth groups, Young Life Leaders, Lifestyle mentors, Small groups
Cost: Pre-registration is $5 a person and $10 at the door. (that is per person, not team, prizes will be given - including best uniforms)
Reason: Create a great opportunity for as ministry leaders to love on kids and create a great experience with them.
TEAM Size: 6 on the court with optional 2 subs. Only two people can be over the age of 18 on the team. These teams can be co-ed.
Please pass this email to other group leaders!!!!!
General Rules of Dodgeball
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Volleyball With Impact.
I wanted to call this blog post "Purpose Driven Volleyball," but that has probably already been trademarked. Here is a great story from a great guy who is doing incredible things down at Doheny:
"Beach volleyball. Words that bring to mind images of busy summer days, Top Gun, or even Summer Olympic gold. What these words do not make you think of is ministry, unity, and salvation. But these are exactly what beach volleyball has brought to the college group at our church. My wife and I spent the past year playing regularly with a couple of friends and after Misty May and Kerri Walsh put the sport back on the
map this summer, we decided to give our college students an opportunity to learn how to play. It was a pretty simple set-up: meet at 8am, warm-up, teach a few skills and play some games. Week by week we were having what we expected, a lot of fun and some memorable moments.
Soon we started grabbing lunch together afterwords and some incredible results began to manafest. What started as a fun interest began to bear a lot of fruit. Here are three realizations as we began to look at what was happening:
1. Ownership. The people who came to volleyball began to take ownership of the group and their faith. These where the ones that became the most excited to participate in our other Bible studies and even planned additional times to get-together to hang-out building up the unity of our group.
2. Evangelism through relationship. Some of our students started to stick around and join up with the Saddleback college class that meets at 10 am. As they built relationships based on volleyball, they started having opportunities to actually show Christian love and share the good news of Jesus, inviting people to church and other
gatherings...
3. and lastly... after playing volleyball, a girl from the college class accepted Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior with one of our college ministry students who had taken a particular interest in volleyball and living out his Christian faith.
The idea of living out our Christian faith is living missional! Praise God for reaching others through us by a fun and silly game!"
A story from Derick Zeulner, a pastor at South Shores, Dana Point.
"Beach volleyball. Words that bring to mind images of busy summer days, Top Gun, or even Summer Olympic gold. What these words do not make you think of is ministry, unity, and salvation. But these are exactly what beach volleyball has brought to the college group at our church. My wife and I spent the past year playing regularly with a couple of friends and after Misty May and Kerri Walsh put the sport back on the
map this summer, we decided to give our college students an opportunity to learn how to play. It was a pretty simple set-up: meet at 8am, warm-up, teach a few skills and play some games. Week by week we were having what we expected, a lot of fun and some memorable moments.
Soon we started grabbing lunch together afterwords and some incredible results began to manafest. What started as a fun interest began to bear a lot of fruit. Here are three realizations as we began to look at what was happening:
1. Ownership. The people who came to volleyball began to take ownership of the group and their faith. These where the ones that became the most excited to participate in our other Bible studies and even planned additional times to get-together to hang-out building up the unity of our group.
2. Evangelism through relationship. Some of our students started to stick around and join up with the Saddleback college class that meets at 10 am. As they built relationships based on volleyball, they started having opportunities to actually show Christian love and share the good news of Jesus, inviting people to church and other
gatherings...
3. and lastly... after playing volleyball, a girl from the college class accepted Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior with one of our college ministry students who had taken a particular interest in volleyball and living out his Christian faith.
The idea of living out our Christian faith is living missional! Praise God for reaching others through us by a fun and silly game!"
A story from Derick Zeulner, a pastor at South Shores, Dana Point.
A Lifestyle Mentor's Support Goes A Long Way
I'd love to share one story from a relatively new lifestyle mentor:
My group currently consists of 3 young ladies and we all are becoming very close. I love it! There is one person that I've been focusing on who I'll call "Mary." Her parents are homeless and they want Mary and her little sister to live with them. Unfortunately this means staying at a motel or in their van in a store parking lot. The kids have been bounced back and forth between their parents and a family that would love to become foster parents to Mary and her sister. Recently Mary had to attend a custody hearing in court, which would decide if Mary and her sister would be able to stay at the foster parent's house for good. I went to court with Mary to give her and her sister support. It was very difficult for Mary because she had to tell the truth about her parents and Mary knew it would expose her parent's faults. Mary had to tell about her parents alcoholism and that they let her and her sister drink with them. It was a very tough time for Mary. We are still waiting to hear what the court's decision is in this heartbreaking situation.
I know God is using me to touch Mary's life. For two weekends in a row Mary has not taken a drink even when her parents offered it to her. She says she does this as a promise to me. Mary also cuts herself and as we've talked about it she has promised to stop that too. Two months ago I couldn't get Mary to talk to me. Now she tells me everything that is going on in her life. It is the same way with the other girls too. Sometimes they give me way too much information but I count it a privilege that they are so open with me. I thank the Lord for giving me this opportunity to serve these girls.
My group currently consists of 3 young ladies and we all are becoming very close. I love it! There is one person that I've been focusing on who I'll call "Mary." Her parents are homeless and they want Mary and her little sister to live with them. Unfortunately this means staying at a motel or in their van in a store parking lot. The kids have been bounced back and forth between their parents and a family that would love to become foster parents to Mary and her sister. Recently Mary had to attend a custody hearing in court, which would decide if Mary and her sister would be able to stay at the foster parent's house for good. I went to court with Mary to give her and her sister support. It was very difficult for Mary because she had to tell the truth about her parents and Mary knew it would expose her parent's faults. Mary had to tell about her parents alcoholism and that they let her and her sister drink with them. It was a very tough time for Mary. We are still waiting to hear what the court's decision is in this heartbreaking situation.
I know God is using me to touch Mary's life. For two weekends in a row Mary has not taken a drink even when her parents offered it to her. She says she does this as a promise to me. Mary also cuts herself and as we've talked about it she has promised to stop that too. Two months ago I couldn't get Mary to talk to me. Now she tells me everything that is going on in her life. It is the same way with the other girls too. Sometimes they give me way too much information but I count it a privilege that they are so open with me. I thank the Lord for giving me this opportunity to serve these girls.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Pastoral Reference
"I really appreciate Ryan's creativity and passion for the church to develop authentic disciples of Jesus Christ. His vision for mentoring needs to be embraced by this new generations of youth leaders."
- Bill Staffieri
Youth Pastor at Beachpoint Church, Fountain Valley (He has been there for like 19 years)
Adjunct Professor at Biola University in the Christian Education Department. (6 years)
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Project Hangout: Youth Pastor Advocates
We offer many ways to help the church body, especially the youth pastor, as we want your youth program to succeed!
Let us talk to your church about how we can provide:
Youth Leader Recruitment - Get more leaders from your existing church body
Youth Leader Training/Structure - Train those leaders with tools and a vision - then keep them going
Community Events - Spend more time with the students and less time planning events by using the opportunities we provide. These are a great way for small group leaders to connect with their group outside of the church.
Fundraisers - Find out how you can use our turnkey fundraiser that brings in big bucks for your students so more kids can go to your camps,
mission trips or service projects!
Let us talk to your church about how we can provide:
Youth Leader Recruitment - Get more leaders from your existing church body
Youth Leader Training/Structure - Train those leaders with tools and a vision - then keep them going
Community Events - Spend more time with the students and less time planning events by using the opportunities we provide. These are a great way for small group leaders to connect with their group outside of the church.
Fundraisers - Find out how you can use our turnkey fundraiser that brings in big bucks for your students so more kids can go to your camps,
mission trips or service projects!
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The Relational Tangible Object
In ministry some have found that its hard to measure effectiveness because relationships are viewed as intangible objects. I however disagree! I believe a relationship is a tangible object. Its who you turn to and lean on when things get tough.
Its our relationship with Jesus that has saved us. We needed saving and Jesus, in relationship, put skin on and came to our rescue. A guy named Thomas once put his hands in His nail holes - that's tangible.
We have been sent to be the tangible Jesus. Help us make that possible. Your donations and support help us to train up and send out college and young adults that are committed to walking students through their toughest years. We want to train up and send you out as well. Lets begin our relationship. Times are tough. Let's lean on each other.
From the mouth of our mentors:
Davey and I have been sailing for a few months now at Lake Mission Viejo. God has given me a catch twenty-two circumstance in our sailing outings. The wind at LMV isn't the greatest, not to mention the most reliable. But as it turns out, that's not a bad thing. Sometimes we have a hoot, hiking out (that's when the boat is tipping, and you lean out over the water to keep from capsizing) - those are the times we come for the adrenalin rush.
Others times the water is dead calm. Times like these are when the deep spiritual conversations spark and I really get him. God has blessed me by using me in Davey's life, and he is slowly becoming more comfortable with our conversations.
The Highest Recommendation
If your faith is looking to be challenged and grown or you are seeking to understand why we do what we do at Project Hangout then I have a recommendation for you. This is the kind of book that I am telling everyone about and am thankful that Al Seibert told me about it. The book is an easy read as it is broken down into devotional (1 page style) morsels that you can chew on each day. The author, E. Stanley Jones summed up the book in its title, "The Word Became Flesh." It will challenge a person of any faith to live the way God intended and yet it flies in the face of the traditional church structure. Enjoy the reading, I hope it turns your world upside down.
The Word Became Flesh, By E. Stanly Jones
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Up Next: Howie's Game Night
Currently we have a"no-show" banquet going on to raise some funds, check that out at www.phmnoshowbanquet.blogspot.com
November 26th - Game Night @ Howie’s Game Shack (Mission Viejo) 7-11pm, $5, The first 40 to RSVP get a guaranteed seat, pizza and monster energy drink! RSVP by Nov. 19th. (www.howies.com) Must mention Project Hangout to get the special price.
RSVP to: RZ@projecthangout.com
Project Hangout At Howie's November 26th from Project Hangout on Vimeo.
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Paintball was a blast
So many war stories and memories. One thing I learned; never borrow a church van without checking to see if the registration is still valid. The people at Camp Pendleton didn't like that fact. So the van sat outside the gates as we shuttled people in.
Memories... I saw fathers connect with sons and I saw a father connect with his daughter. I saw leaders and pastors connect with kids and I saw friends connect deeper with each other. 37 people in all came out from multiple churches. Some have never been to a a church.
My highlight was the fact I was able to bring my neighbor. My neighbor is 22 years old and has lived next door to me for about a year. A few months back I finally learned his name and have been looking for ways to connect. We run into each other once in awhile and the conversation is always good but brief. Never had I had an opportunity like this, and so I asked him to paintball. It was his first time and we carpooled together. We started the day at 6:30am and ended at 6pm which gave us plenty of time to get to know each other better. He loved it! Our story will continue as we have more context to rely upon. He will be at Howie's Game night and I won't be surprised if I'm the one driving.
Project Hangout works because it gives you chances to connect on a personal level in a way that can only happen when the body of Christ mobilizes to work together to create something bigger than itself. Thanks to everyone that made paintball happen.
"We didn’t know anybody going in, the group was all inclusive and we didn’t feel like strangers at all and we had a super time. Philip and I look forward to doing it again." - Gordon, on how he and his son enjoyed paintball.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Project Hangout Paintball at Camp Pendleton OCT. 25
Paintball At Camp Pendleton from Project Hangout on Vimeo.
Project Hangout Presents Paintball Day. 9-4pm at Camp Pendleton, (www.cppaintball.com - the waiver forms are found online and must be filled out).
$50 for people without gear includes 500 paintballs, and $25 for people with gear. Extra paintballs cost $15 for 500. The first 15 to RSVP via email get 100 free paintballs. We suggest you bring a lunch. All ages welcome
I suggest leaving around 7:30 and getting there early to get gear. You'll be responsible for transportation. When we get there we'll put wristbands on and make teams.
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Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Dessert 9/24/08
As we continue to reach Orange County we are looking for people to join in our united front to reach the youth in our area. The Project Hangout model combines "evangelism" and "discipleship." We are looking for young adults, Pastors, youth workers and youth advocates who care about the next generation to please come and listen to the work that God is doing through Project Hangout. Together we can partner together and make the biggest impact that the world has ever seen. Please RSVP by emailing RZ@PROJECTHANGOUT.COM
9.28.08, 7:30pm-9pm at the Fireside Room of Calvary Church of Santa Ana
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9.28.08, 7:30pm-9pm at the Fireside Room of Calvary Church of Santa Ana
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Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Upcoming Events (Sept - Nov. '08)
September 26th - Concert @ Verizon Wireless Amphitheater Featuring Third Day, Switchfoot, Jars of Clay and Robert Randolph and the Family Band. For Tickets go to: www.transparentproductions.com
September 28th - Project Hangout Dessert - Where you can bring friends to find out more about Project Hangout. 7:30 -9pm in the Fireside Room of Calvary Church of Santa Ana www.calvarylife.org
October 4th - Ignite @ BIOLA - leadership training event for teams of high school students. 8:30-3:30pm $10 www.igniteteam.org A great thing for Mentors and Pastors to bring their kids to
October 11th – Leadership Training #1 @ Hub (7 Whatney, Irvine 92618) 10a-12:30. Please RSVP - Thinking about being a lifestyle mentor? This is for you!!! Its risk free.
October 25th – Paintball @ Camp Pendleton, 9-4pm Approx. $60 to rent. First 15 RSVP get 100 free paintballs. RSVP By OCT. 23nd. Flyers/video will be out shortly.
November 23rd - Concert for a Cause @ Geneva Pres. to raise awareness for Project Hangout, 6-9pm $10, This concert has been postponed due to the premier of 24, redemption 8-10 pm on Fox 11. We highly respect the good work of Jack Bauer.
November 26th - Game Night @ Howie’s Game Shack (Mission Viejo) 7-11pm, $5, The first 40 to RSVP get a guaranteed seat, pizza and monster energy drink! RSVP by Nov. 19th. (www.howies.com) Must mention Project Hangout to get the special price.
RSVP by emailing: RZ@PROJECTHANGOUT.COM
Sunday, August 24, 2008
The "Living Missional" Challenge
Our challenge to you is to live missional. Try it. See how it changes your view on life and see if it makes the red letters of Jesus jump off the page. I know it has for me. After all it was he who said, "Come, follow me ... and I will make you fishers of men. (MT 4:19)"
Have you gone man fishing lately? Probably not, but you can - and we are here to help because Jesus also said to "make disciples. (MT 28:19)" We believe you have what it takes, after all God has given you specific gifts/talents/passions to connect with people. (Mt 25:14-30, Psalm 139: 13-16)
LIVE MISSIONAL, live with intention and purpose. Be invitation and relational Make opportunity of the places you are and the things you love. Dive deep into pursuing relationships with others WITH the goal of LOVING THEM like Jesus did.
Remember, this is what Project Hangout is all about. We are here to help. We have training, resources and people to guide you. You will never feel more gratification than serving your God in the way that His Son did.
Leave your stories as comments. Let's hear about them as we encourage others to live without boarders by following Jesus and being all about relationships.
Project Hangout Testimony from Project Hangout on Vimeo.
Have you gone man fishing lately? Probably not, but you can - and we are here to help because Jesus also said to "make disciples. (MT 28:19)" We believe you have what it takes, after all God has given you specific gifts/talents/passions to connect with people. (Mt 25:14-30, Psalm 139: 13-16)
LIVE MISSIONAL, live with intention and purpose. Be invitation and relational Make opportunity of the places you are and the things you love. Dive deep into pursuing relationships with others WITH the goal of LOVING THEM like Jesus did.
Remember, this is what Project Hangout is all about. We are here to help. We have training, resources and people to guide you. You will never feel more gratification than serving your God in the way that His Son did.
Leave your stories as comments. Let's hear about them as we encourage others to live without boarders by following Jesus and being all about relationships.
Project Hangout Testimony from Project Hangout on Vimeo.
Saturday, August 23, 2008
This Is What They Are Saying About PH...
Former Young Life Area Director Of South Coast, Ken Clark, had this to say about Project Hangout, "I love the simplicity of Project Hangout. Adults being trained to use their gifts and interests to connect with lost and hurting kids. No program, no camps... just a quick and efficient deployment of adults to catch the kids that slip through the cracks of other ministries."
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Thursday, August 21, 2008
Concert For A Cause : August 24th
Project Hangout has the biggest opportunity it has ever been handed and its happening in just a couple of days. Calvary Church of Santa Ana is throwing a concert with Tyrone Wells, Trevor Davis and Erika Soto to raise awareness of Project Hangout. On August 24th we will have the opportunity to explain our drive to connect people with their passions and see them played out in community. Following Jesus is all about relationships and God has given us special gifts and talents (tools) to help us connect with people. Our challenge to "Live Missionally," will be given and people will have the opportunity to hear stories and testimonies. Come on out at 6pm and we'll be there in full force to answer any questions you have and give you plenty of opportunity to get involved.
www.calvarylife.org/concert
*please note that the ticket price does not benefit Project Hangout in anyway but goes to supporting the artists
PS - fathom thirty-three clothing will be selling two new designs at this event. For every shirt purchased $10 will be donated to Project Hangout. Shirts retail for $20.
www.calvarylife.org/concert
*please note that the ticket price does not benefit Project Hangout in anyway but goes to supporting the artists
PS - fathom thirty-three clothing will be selling two new designs at this event. For every shirt purchased $10 will be donated to Project Hangout. Shirts retail for $20.
2am Success!
BroomBall brings out the crazies!!!! We had such a blast last Friday from 11:59 till 2am. Thanks to all 52 people that came out to play until the wee hours of the morning. We had the perfect variety of students from junior high to college. Thanks to all the wonderful lifestyle mentors, church leaders and parents that brought their kids! These memories will last forever and your bonds of friendship were strengthened.
Stay tuned because we will do it again. Keep the calendar open for a concert on September 26th featuring Switchfoot, Mercy Me and Jars of Clay at the Verizon Ampitheatre. Project Hangout is teaming up with Transparent Productions to create another great community event to bring people together in a healthy environment where relationships can grow.
Stay tuned because we will do it again. Keep the calendar open for a concert on September 26th featuring Switchfoot, Mercy Me and Jars of Clay at the Verizon Ampitheatre. Project Hangout is teaming up with Transparent Productions to create another great community event to bring people together in a healthy environment where relationships can grow.
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Broom Ball Night Aug. 15th
Broom Ball At Aliso Viejo Ice Palace, August 15th, 11:59 pm till 2am for only $10. Teenagers and College age welcome. Youth groups and lifestyle mentorship groups - this event has been put on for you!
9 Journey, Aliso Viejo, CA 92656 (www.avicepalace.com).
We suggest Helmets. Snacks and beverages included.
Friday, July 11, 2008
Project Hangout Quote
"Project Hangout captures the essence of Jesus' ministry: life on life mentoring and discipleship that happens naturally out of close friendships. It ought to make even a lot of pastors rethink how they do ministry." - Brent Dedmon, College Pastor, Calvary Church of Santa Ana
Project Hangout is a non-profit mentorship umbrella that aids the church in the training, supporting and the encouragement of lifestyle mentors. Our Life-style mentorship groups are passion based with a relational emphasis to model the way of Jesus Christ. Project Hangout strengthens the church through young adult and college leadership development, lifestyle impact and by generating community events. (read less)
"Project Hangout captures the essence of Jesus' ministry: life-on-life mentoring and discipleship that happens naturally out of close friendships. It ought to make even a lot of pastors rethink how they do ministry." - Brent Dedmon, College Pastor, Calvary Church of Santa Ana
Project Hangout is a non-profit mentorship umbrella that aids the church in the training, supporting and the encouragement of lifestyle mentors. Our Life-style mentorship groups are passion based with a relational emphasis to model the way of Jesus Christ. Project Hangout strengthens the church through young adult and college leadership development, lifestyle impact and by generating community events. (read less)
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Saturday, June 21, 2008
Friday, June 20, 2008
Mentor Spotlight (June): Andrew Hartman
Senior Mentor: Andrew Hartman
Andrew Hartman is currently the Senior Project Manager at Caliber Media Group, prior to joining Caliber, he was the Director of Leadership Development at Biola University. With a Masters of Education from Azusa University, Andrew has always had a love for developing and mentoring others. Andrew joins Project Hangout as a Senior Mentor, a way for career focused individuals with a love for the next generation to stay involved with mentoring. Andrew connects with lifestyle mentor Matt Yriarte and is invested in Matt's kids through prayer and intentionally connecting with Matt. Our structure helps all involved to show God's love through every relationship.
Here is Andrew in his own words:
"I'm excited to be a part of what Project Hangout is doing in the lives of high school students by investing into the lives of the lifestyle mentors. It's incredible to be a part of kingdom expansion as we senior mentors pour into lifestyle mentors,and watch them pour into high school students. "
Andrew and his wife Kelly just recently had a daughter, Emma. They also run a Rock Harbor life group out of their home.
Age: 28
Town: Irvine
Church: Rock Harbor, Costa Mesa
Andrew Hartman is currently the Senior Project Manager at Caliber Media Group, prior to joining Caliber, he was the Director of Leadership Development at Biola University. With a Masters of Education from Azusa University, Andrew has always had a love for developing and mentoring others. Andrew joins Project Hangout as a Senior Mentor, a way for career focused individuals with a love for the next generation to stay involved with mentoring. Andrew connects with lifestyle mentor Matt Yriarte and is invested in Matt's kids through prayer and intentionally connecting with Matt. Our structure helps all involved to show God's love through every relationship.
Here is Andrew in his own words:
"I'm excited to be a part of what Project Hangout is doing in the lives of high school students by investing into the lives of the lifestyle mentors. It's incredible to be a part of kingdom expansion as we senior mentors pour into lifestyle mentors,and watch them pour into high school students. "
Andrew and his wife Kelly just recently had a daughter, Emma. They also run a Rock Harbor life group out of their home.
Age: 28
Town: Irvine
Church: Rock Harbor, Costa Mesa
Friday, June 6, 2008
Media Spotlight V.1
Every once in awhile we run across incredible stories in media that demonstrate the lifestyle ministry model of Project Hangout. The articles don't call it that, but the stories of transformation are filled with people reaching other people through relationships based around passions. Take for instance the story of Harmony Dust, a former stripper, in the March ('08) issue of RELEVANT magazine. The following is an excerpt taken from the article by Ashley Dodson called, Scars & Stilettos: (click on article to enlarge)
The story of Harmony's life is a great work of God. She has now started a ministry to help girls in the sex industry. Please visit www.iamatreasure.com and check out more of her story. She also recently won the social worker of the year award and is married to Hip-Hop artist Pigeon John. The unsung hero in this story is Tanya, who loved Harmony and connected with her over their mutual love for dance. She was not afraid to seek out and initiate relationship in order to incarnate Jesus Christ. She is living the way of a lifestyle mentor whether she knew it or not. Thank you Tanya for helping change another life!
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
New Mission Statement and Logo Announced
In order to communicate the new structure and focus of Project Hangout and the board and all involved agreed that the mission/vision/values and logo needed to be changed. Last Board meeting the "red couch" logo was put into action as well as the following mission statement:
Project Hangout equips and mobilizes Christ Followers for relational
lifestyle ministry as agents of change in the hearts and minds of today's youth.
We will continue to better express the heart of Project Hangout as we continue to develop our new vision and values. Thanks for all of your support!
Project Hangout equips and mobilizes Christ Followers for relational
lifestyle ministry as agents of change in the hearts and minds of today's youth.
We will continue to better express the heart of Project Hangout as we continue to develop our new vision and values. Thanks for all of your support!
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Upcoming Events (August '08)
Friday, May 23, 2008
Mentor Spotlight (May): Ashley Silver
Ashley Silver
is our first second generation lifestyle mentor. She joined us in January. Listen to her story:
My lifestyle mentor during my high school years was Jenn Zeulner. Seeing how great Jenn turned out after all her obstacles she had overcome as a teen gave me hope, I looked up to her. She was an anchor for me as I stumbled through high school - a friend in my times of need. I believe every high school student should have someone older in their life (besides a parent - because let’s just be honest - what high school student listens to their parents?). I am now apart of Project Hangout and loving on a small group of girls. “Kim” is a great example of the type of ministry Project Hangout is offering. Kim came to a youth group only because she had gotten in trouble in school. Her parents forced her to come. It was either being locked up in a house with her family, or church. She chose church, to come and sit in a corner. Kim and I connected at a winter camp that I was asked to counsel. Through a 7 hour car ride and endless hours in a hotel room with the power out and a storm raging outside, we grew close. I became someone she could relate to and open up with. She began to spill her heart and ask me questions she didn’t think she could ask her parents or even friends her age. After the trip was over, we began to hangout and I got to know her in her own environment. One day I received a call from Kim’s mother. She called to tell me of the great impact I had on Kim. Her mom explained in detail the transformation that was beginning to take place every time we hung out. The mom stressed how much Kim looked up to me. I am committed to my relationship with Kim and I’ve learned that it takes time; teens just want someone to listen, someone to talk to, to laugh with and someone to trust. I am a lifestyle mentor and one day my hope is that Kim would follow in my footsteps.
--Ashley
Age: 20
Town: Lake Forest
Church: Saddleback, Lake Forest
Group: 2-3 core, relational including coffee, hanging out and shopping.
Meet: Weekly
is our first second generation lifestyle mentor. She joined us in January. Listen to her story:
My lifestyle mentor during my high school years was Jenn Zeulner. Seeing how great Jenn turned out after all her obstacles she had overcome as a teen gave me hope, I looked up to her. She was an anchor for me as I stumbled through high school - a friend in my times of need. I believe every high school student should have someone older in their life (besides a parent - because let’s just be honest - what high school student listens to their parents?). I am now apart of Project Hangout and loving on a small group of girls. “Kim” is a great example of the type of ministry Project Hangout is offering. Kim came to a youth group only because she had gotten in trouble in school. Her parents forced her to come. It was either being locked up in a house with her family, or church. She chose church, to come and sit in a corner. Kim and I connected at a winter camp that I was asked to counsel. Through a 7 hour car ride and endless hours in a hotel room with the power out and a storm raging outside, we grew close. I became someone she could relate to and open up with. She began to spill her heart and ask me questions she didn’t think she could ask her parents or even friends her age. After the trip was over, we began to hangout and I got to know her in her own environment. One day I received a call from Kim’s mother. She called to tell me of the great impact I had on Kim. Her mom explained in detail the transformation that was beginning to take place every time we hung out. The mom stressed how much Kim looked up to me. I am committed to my relationship with Kim and I’ve learned that it takes time; teens just want someone to listen, someone to talk to, to laugh with and someone to trust. I am a lifestyle mentor and one day my hope is that Kim would follow in my footsteps.
--Ashley
Age: 20
Town: Lake Forest
Church: Saddleback, Lake Forest
Group: 2-3 core, relational including coffee, hanging out and shopping.
Meet: Weekly
Saturday, April 12, 2008
BIOLA UNIVERSITY PRESS
BIOLA's Campus newspaper the Chimes recently did an article on Project Hangout. Please check out the full article at: HERE
"Some might consider Project Hangout a type of haven or Christian utopia, but to Director of Operations Ryan Zeulner, it is a place where kids can find answers.
Project Hangout has two main goals: to train leaders within the church and to “reach the unreached.” Through rigorous training, the leaders of Project Hangout hope to create strong, godly leaders in the church, who will use relationships in the church to reach non-Christians. Project Hangout currently has its focus in Orange County, but they are looking to spread their ministry to other nearby locations..."
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Hunni Dart Event, 4/10/08
Friday, March 28, 2008
Mentor Spotlight (April): Matt Yriarte
Matt Yriarte
Age 25
Town: Aliso Viejo
Church: South Shores,
Dana Point
Group: 20 plus guys - skate, surf, snowboard, Bible studies, concerts, working out
Meet: Mondays and sometimes all other days
From Matt himself:
The reason i think this style of ministry is so effective is because of the kids I've seen changed because of it. One example of this is in a kid named Patrick. Patrick came to church for an overnight event we were doing. He had just moved and didn't have a lot of people he knew. We hung out a lot that night and connected. From there we started going to concerts and having lunch with the other guys which got him connected to a larger group of friends. He became a regular in our group and found Jesus. Shortly after that Patrick was convicted for crimes he had committed before he started coming to the group and was put in juvenile hall for 3 months. The day he went in, his mom called me and told me that he was ministering to the other inmates about Jesus. Patrick is doing well now and still apart of our group. One of the things I learned from Patrick was that kids want relationship and someone they can hang out with and trust. I have found that when I am willing to meet them on their level they are in turn willing to trust me more, thereby opening up a relationship where I can minister more as a friend than as some guy that counsels them. I feel that the most effective way for me to have an impact on the lives of my boys is to be real with them, hangout by going to shows, snowboarding, lunch, and by praying with them. Stay gold!
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Lifestyle Mentor Training/ How to get involved
When we partner with a church or university we will come in and make a pitch to its members. Those interested will get an application and go through an interview process. If you don't need to hear the pitch, but are already interested we can send you an application via mail.
Once accepted and background checked we have about 7.5 hours of training. This is such a great way to help you start living a missional life. We teach how to initiate, live a life that is invitational and how to live out of your strength zone and passions. We believe we can teach you how to feel alive and fulfill the call that Jesus has given us: Follow him and make disciples.
Our training is an eye opener to God's will for our lives! It's broken up into three easy parts. Training session 1 & 2 (spread a month apart), a take home part we call "ownwork" and quarterly refresh sessions based on the Truth Project.
email me with any questions: rz@projecthangout.com
Once accepted and background checked we have about 7.5 hours of training. This is such a great way to help you start living a missional life. We teach how to initiate, live a life that is invitational and how to live out of your strength zone and passions. We believe we can teach you how to feel alive and fulfill the call that Jesus has given us: Follow him and make disciples.
Our training is an eye opener to God's will for our lives! It's broken up into three easy parts. Training session 1 & 2 (spread a month apart), a take home part we call "ownwork" and quarterly refresh sessions based on the Truth Project.
email me with any questions: rz@projecthangout.com
History Of PH
In The Beginning…
The Lord gave me a seed of an idea in the summer of 2000. One particular show at the Glass House in Pomona changed my world. On the trip home one of my son’s friends asked, “Hey, did you see that guy in the stairwell? He was all by himself, sitting on the stairs and doing drugs!”
That statement hit me hard. How could this kid be surrounded by so many people, some of them Christian, and not be helped? It troubled me that this kid was screaming for help but no one came along side of him to engage.
The Seed Is Planted …
For over a year, I talked about my idea, looked for other ministries with a similar mission, and presented the idea to any one or group willing to listen. With the help of the Barnabas group, Project Hangout established itself as a non-profit organization and the first Board meeting was held the evening of September 10, 2001 .
And The Seed Sprouted …
In 2004 we began to look for possible Lifestyle mentors. The first group established was a guy’s skateboarding group lead by Nate Klein. Later on, we added a guy’s surfer group lead by Josh Lloyd and a gal’s surfer/skateboard group headed by Mandy Eschenmann. As we entered 2005 we had well established groups and we saw God moving in the hearts and minds of those participating.
By the end of 2005 we had added a fourth lifestyle group. I have called it the, “coff(ee) & talk” group lead by Jenn Zeulner. Jenn meets with a dozen young ladies on an individual basis at a local coffee shop and talks about their lives.
As we entered into 2006 God lead us to Cornerstone Church in Anaheim, CA. With their help we started the Backyard in the summer of that year. This was a monthly event that included bands and a great environment that included food and video games. At times we had 40 people show. At other times we had 300 people crowding the room. All in all, we were able to show that this type of event could draw a good size crowd and that the unchurched would come.
On September 15, 2007, Ryan officially became the Director of Operations for Project Hangout in order to expand our lifestyle mentoring model into churches and facilitate community events.
With A Bright Future Ahead Of Us.
In the future, as God guides us and provides the means, we desire to one day operate our own facility. A building in the middle of the local community that provides after school programs, summer activities, weekend events all focused on the Lifestyle Mentoring model.
Written by founder: Dale Hedges
The Lord gave me a seed of an idea in the summer of 2000. One particular show at the Glass House in Pomona changed my world. On the trip home one of my son’s friends asked, “Hey, did you see that guy in the stairwell? He was all by himself, sitting on the stairs and doing drugs!”
That statement hit me hard. How could this kid be surrounded by so many people, some of them Christian, and not be helped? It troubled me that this kid was screaming for help but no one came along side of him to engage.
The Seed Is Planted …
For over a year, I talked about my idea, looked for other ministries with a similar mission, and presented the idea to any one or group willing to listen. With the help of the Barnabas group, Project Hangout established itself as a non-profit organization and the first Board meeting was held the evening of September 10, 2001 .
And The Seed Sprouted …
In 2004 we began to look for possible Lifestyle mentors. The first group established was a guy’s skateboarding group lead by Nate Klein. Later on, we added a guy’s surfer group lead by Josh Lloyd and a gal’s surfer/skateboard group headed by Mandy Eschenmann. As we entered 2005 we had well established groups and we saw God moving in the hearts and minds of those participating.
By the end of 2005 we had added a fourth lifestyle group. I have called it the, “coff(ee) & talk” group lead by Jenn Zeulner. Jenn meets with a dozen young ladies on an individual basis at a local coffee shop and talks about their lives.
As we entered into 2006 God lead us to Cornerstone Church in Anaheim, CA. With their help we started the Backyard in the summer of that year. This was a monthly event that included bands and a great environment that included food and video games. At times we had 40 people show. At other times we had 300 people crowding the room. All in all, we were able to show that this type of event could draw a good size crowd and that the unchurched would come.
On September 15, 2007, Ryan officially became the Director of Operations for Project Hangout in order to expand our lifestyle mentoring model into churches and facilitate community events.
With A Bright Future Ahead Of Us.
In the future, as God guides us and provides the means, we desire to one day operate our own facility. A building in the middle of the local community that provides after school programs, summer activities, weekend events all focused on the Lifestyle Mentoring model.
Written by founder: Dale Hedges
What is a Lifestyle Mentor?
Project Hangout builds the church and reaches the unreached. We do that by training college and young adults how to be lifestyle mentors. We believe that God has made us all unique individuals with our own passions and desires.
We teach people to use their passions to develop relationships with the next generation. So lets say I like surfing. I need to surf every week just to feel alive - so I spend 2-3 hours a week surfing. Our model is to find a HS Student in the youth ministry that also likes to surf and to invite them along. Build that relationship. Disciple them. When there is a firm foundation their then explain to them how you want to help reach their friends. You have three more seats in your car when you go surfing - so you say I bet you have three friends at school that would love to come surfing. Over the next couple months you are now mentoring 3 people that would never step inside a church. The 5 of you are living life and you are loving on them connecting over coffee or bagels or mountain biking, painting, cooking, snowboarding - whatever it is. That is the gist of it (there is more).
There are benefits to becoming a lifestyle mentor that I can tell you about. Its really great. I'll be speaking at churches, so stay posted if you are interested in hearing more about it. Or we can talk via email or the phone. The (PH)one number is 714.602.1032 - or just press the call button on the blog. We are looking to partner with as many churches as we can to spread lifestyle mentorship - after all its how jesus worked. Maybe you and your church or University would be interested?
-Ryan Z
We teach people to use their passions to develop relationships with the next generation. So lets say I like surfing. I need to surf every week just to feel alive - so I spend 2-3 hours a week surfing. Our model is to find a HS Student in the youth ministry that also likes to surf and to invite them along. Build that relationship. Disciple them. When there is a firm foundation their then explain to them how you want to help reach their friends. You have three more seats in your car when you go surfing - so you say I bet you have three friends at school that would love to come surfing. Over the next couple months you are now mentoring 3 people that would never step inside a church. The 5 of you are living life and you are loving on them connecting over coffee or bagels or mountain biking, painting, cooking, snowboarding - whatever it is. That is the gist of it (there is more).
There are benefits to becoming a lifestyle mentor that I can tell you about. Its really great. I'll be speaking at churches, so stay posted if you are interested in hearing more about it. Or we can talk via email or the phone. The (PH)one number is 714.602.1032 - or just press the call button on the blog. We are looking to partner with as many churches as we can to spread lifestyle mentorship - after all its how jesus worked. Maybe you and your church or University would be interested?
-Ryan Z
What is Project Hangout?
A group of us who believe that the way to reach the next generation is to do what God has created us to do and bring along side those who love it as well. This is the definition of lifestyle ministry. Its a passion based ministry that transcends generations through discipleship and mentoring.
Project Hangout is a non-profit mentorship umbrella that aids the church in the training, supporting and the encouragement of lifestyle mentors. Our Life-style mentorship groups are passion based with a relational emphasis to model the way of Jesus Christ. Project Hangout strengthens the church through young adult and college leadership development, lifestyle mentoring for relational impact and community events.
(To find out more about lifestyle mentoring, please read "What is Lifestyle Mentoring")
Our community events are a chance to get everyone together for a great time! We pull off concerts in places that have space to relax and experience a healthy environment. We don't just stop there, but we are also working on broom ball nights, fashion shows, dodgeball tournaments and the like.
Project Hangout is a non-profit mentorship umbrella that aids the church in the training, supporting and the encouragement of lifestyle mentors. Our Life-style mentorship groups are passion based with a relational emphasis to model the way of Jesus Christ. Project Hangout strengthens the church through young adult and college leadership development, lifestyle mentoring for relational impact and community events.
(To find out more about lifestyle mentoring, please read "What is Lifestyle Mentoring")
Our community events are a chance to get everyone together for a great time! We pull off concerts in places that have space to relax and experience a healthy environment. We don't just stop there, but we are also working on broom ball nights, fashion shows, dodgeball tournaments and the like.
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